Check my date.
A rough date and a suburb are enough to start. I’ll check my diary, tell you whether travel comes into it, and we’ll go through the rest at our first chat.
This is what I’d read.
Your enquiry, as it would land in my inbox. Check the spelling of your names, because I will.
Getting legally married? Your notice has to reach me at least one calendar month before the day. The finder on the process page works out the last day your notice can reach me.
Work out your notice deadlineIf either of you has been married before, say so. It changes nothing about the ceremony, but I’ll need the divorce order or death certificate for the paperwork, and it’s the one document people most often have to hunt for.
Getting married in less than a month? Put that in your message too. The notice rules are strict, but there’s sometimes a way, and I’ll tell you whether it’s worth trying.
“Our first message to Elena was pretty vague: no venue, only a rough month. She wrote back two days later with the dates she had free and a few good questions about us. The first chat was relaxed, and afterwards we knew exactly what would happen next.”
- Ceremonies from
- $450, with the legal paperwork included
- Travel
- Included within 40 km of Northcote
What happens after you write.
No sales call and nothing to sign yet. You can stop after any of these.
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Within two working days
I write back
I’ll tell you whether I’m free on your date and roughly what your ceremony would look like for your numbers. If I’m not free, I’ll say so straight away and send you the names of two or three celebrants I’d happily hand you over to.
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A week or two later
We have a first chat
About an hour, and free. At a café near you, at my kitchen table in Northcote, or on a video call if you’re further away. Bring your questions and your partner. You don’t owe me anything afterwards.
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If it feels right
A deposit holds the date
It’s $300, non-refundable, and it comes off the total. If your date changes and I’m free on the new one, the deposit moves with you. The rest is due two weeks before the wedding. Then we sort out your Notice of Intended Marriage, which has to reach me at least one calendar month before the day. (Not for vow renewals: you’re already married.)
Notice rules here are general information only; check bdm.vic.gov.au or ag.gov.au for the current rules.